so i left him because i couldn't take his behavior, and he had serious issues that he refused to treat and made the living environment unsafe and unhealthy for our children. well, i still have to deal with this shit apparently.
just last sunday, he was supposed to come over in the morning with his mom to see the kids, bring donuts, and some money for child support. 3 oclock rolls around, i hear nothing from him beforehand as to why he didn't show up, no phone call, text, email, anything. so i go to the pool with the kids, i don't wait around for anyone. anyway, he texts at 3 and says he's on his way, so i tell him too bad, i'm not home now and he should've called this morning and explained that he was late. i tell him also to mail the money to me because this isn't the first time this week he's supposed to come bring it to me and visit and then suddenly cancels.
well, he didn't respond, and then half an hour later sends me a text saying he went by my house AND my parents' house (we live 5 min from eachother, they weren't home either) and if i want the money i have to come get it, that HE is tired of playing these games. WTF!? i tell you not to come because i'm not home because i'm not waiting for your ass that's HOURS late but you come anyway knowing i'm not home and demand i drag 3 kids to come see you but I'M playing games!?
so i told him (out of anger) to let the courts decide when he can see the kids, because i'm tired of dealing with his inconsistencies, and it's not healthy for the kids. he's supposed to call every night and calls twice a week if they're lucky. he's supposed to visit once a week and visits every other week if they're lucky. i am over it, and if a court says he needs to be somewhere at a certain time and isn't, then it's just tough shit for him.
but now, days later without a word from him, he's calling and asking if his mom can come pick up the kids (which is a big HELL no, whole different story) so he, she, and his grandma can see them. i mean, of course they can all come to my house and visit, but since he's SOO inconsistent i don't even know if it's a good idea. i'm about ready to rip my hair out, and i left this guy to get AWAY from all of this! i know i will always have to deal with him but will i always have to deal with the fucking mind games!?
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