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When do you know he isn't the one for you

I have been with him for two years and had his baby she is 2 1/2 month old baby and still hasn't asked me the big ?

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Asked by momil at 2:40 AM on Jan. 3, 2009 in Relationships

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  • I think it is when you start questioning the relationship every single day.

    Answer by girlneffy at 2:43 AM on Jan. 3, 2009

  • If it's already been 2 years and a baby, it's probably not going to happen any time soon. Get comfortable with the situation as it is, or be ready to make some changes.


    Answer by Anonymous at 2:44 AM on Jan. 3, 2009

  • Have you laid it out on the table for him that you would like to be married. If you are already living together raising your little girl he may think that you like it this way. If you talk to him and he doesn't want to marry anytime soon go from there if that is what you want or not. Doesn't really sound like you don't love him sounds like you are tired of not being married.

    Answer by lovinmomto3 at 2:46 AM on Jan. 3, 2009

  • I agree with Anonymous...I couldn't have said it better.

    Answer by hopelessnance at 3:04 AM on Jan. 3, 2009

  • I figure if you question it hes not the one.

    Answer by Lyndall at 3:20 AM on Jan. 3, 2009

  • i agree with Lyndall...

    Answer by youngandafraid at 4:02 AM on Jan. 3, 2009

  • If you've both had 'the discussion' and he's just not ready to commit.

    Answer by jusBreathe at 8:21 AM on Jan. 3, 2009

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