I have that same problem, but with your question....does it lie with you, or is the problem with your SO/DH?
My problem is with my DH. Through the years his sex drive has dropped to zero. I'm lucky if I get any intercourse twice a year. He is always loving, kissing, hugging, cuddling, etc., except for that one little act. Then we found out he has diabetes and the doctor told him his sex drive would dwindle - duh! So we have come to accept it and my drive has died down, too, but I still get the "itch" every now and then...LOL.
You need to find out if there is a major turn-off or a medical condition preventing it.
at 7:27 AM on Jan. 3, 2009