Theres a lot of times where I'll ask my boyfriend a question, and he'll completely ignore me and wont answer. Yes, he did hear me; he chooses not to answer me.
I cant stand that! First off, thats rude, and secondly - its immature. He does it when he doesnt like what Im asking or if im not saying it with the most pleasant tone..
In the morning when my daughter wakes up, I go downstairs to use the bathroom, wash my face and make myself and my daughter some breakfast. So i need him to wake up for those 10 minutes it takes me, to watch our daughter. He throws a fit because I need him to wake up. Most of the time I come back upstairs, and he fell back asleep! So every morning now before i go downstairs, i ask him to sit up so he'll be able to stay awake while i'm downstairs. I'll ask "are you gonna sit up so you'll stay awake?" and he'll just lay there and wont answer me (his eyes are open at this point). And I just sit there waiting for him and he finally goes "you can go! Im gonna stay awake!" But you know how many morning i've heard this?
So i ask again if hes gonna sit up, and he'll just ignore me, or answer "quit being stupid and just go."... UGH! What the hec? Why do people ignore you when you ask a freakin question?
I think it is the way that your are asking it. To me, it sounds like you are treating him like a child. I don't know the whole situation but it sounds like the best thing to do is wake up before your daughter, do what you need to do, and then wake up your daughter.
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