No looking for a daddy is never the answer. Yes little boys & girls need a father figure but I am sure there are men in your life who do that too. I was a single mom for sometime and was both mom and dad. My kids now have a step dad but they are teens and have such a great respect forme & women bc I didnt rush into another marriage just to have a man around. Their grandpa & uncles etc all havebeen in their lives the whole time so they did have that male influence.
If you do find someone dont rush. You need to look for a stable, employed, mentally well man who can be a good step dad, not just any ole creep.
at 2:32 PM on Jan. 3, 2009