from the second I told my Husband about pregnancy #3 He freaked. We have a very healthy boy almost 3 and I miscarried @12 Weeks with #2 Now we are into week #7 with #3 and he has said in these words " I DO NOT WANT ANOTHER BABY"
I ask what am I supposed to do kill it? and he says do what ever you want..
Well He just tiold me I need to clean the house up compleately before baby gets here and then he will be happy about having it.. WTF why should I have to convince him or talk him into this.. he koncked me up I did not do it alone!!!!
have any of you ever been thru this aswell?
If you need more info just ask.. Thank you
Asked by Anonymous at 3:06 PM on Jan. 3, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 3:09 PM on Jan. 3, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 3:11 PM on Jan. 3, 2009
Answer by usanamama at 3:12 PM on Jan. 3, 2009
Is it possible that he felt some loss with the miscarriage? Maybe he is scared? Guys aren't great at expressing these things. Either you have a shitty man that you shouldn't have married or you have some other more solvable issue going on. You can't change him. You can only adjust yourself and seek to better understand him. And if he is being abusive, it is your responsibility to leave until he gets help.
Answer by Anonymous at 3:17 PM on Jan. 3, 2009
Answer by missyA916 at 3:23 PM on Jan. 3, 2009
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Answer by lisa_ann_p at 6:09 PM on Jan. 3, 2009