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What would you do if you found out another Cafemom member

was flirting with your husband online?

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 4:44 PM on Jan. 3, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (12)
  • deal with him
    Godswk

    Answer by Godswk at 9:21 PM on Jan. 3, 2009

  • tell her off and ur husband
    butterscotch297

    Answer by butterscotch297 at 4:45 PM on Jan. 3, 2009

  • how would they be able to do that?
    Kenzies_momma

    Answer by Kenzies_momma at 4:45 PM on Jan. 3, 2009

  • Is your husband on cafemom? otherwise how would he know her or have contact with her?
    smnice

    Answer by smnice at 4:46 PM on Jan. 3, 2009

  • how??
    chrstny88

    Answer by chrstny88 at 4:47 PM on Jan. 3, 2009

  • well dh might be oblivious to it...god knows my dh doesnt get even when im trying to come on to him sometimes lol. but why and how would she be talking to him online in the first place??? I would tell your husband how it makes you feel and that you would appreciate it if he stops talking to her whether he thinks nothing of it or not. Put it to him as who is more important You or someone he really doesnt know??
    ReneeLRS

    Answer by ReneeLRS at 4:48 PM on Jan. 3, 2009

  • Did you give her a Screen name for instant messenger or your e-mail address? I would cut her off. Put blocks on your IM's and block her address from your e-mail accounts. How did this happen in the first place?
    Rebecca7708

    Answer by Rebecca7708 at 4:49 PM on Jan. 3, 2009

  • Chew out your husband and let the other woman know he's married. Remember, he can say and be anyone. She doesn't necessarily know he's married. But HE knows he is.
    kaycee14

    Answer by kaycee14 at 4:53 PM on Jan. 3, 2009

  • OH WOW, ID HAVE TO TALK TO MY HUBBY AND THEN ASK THE FEMALE TO RESPECT YOUR RELATIONSHIP. BUT DONT BE MAD AT HER. HES YOUR HUSBAND AND IF HES DOING IT ONLINE HE MAYBE DOING IT OTHER PLACES TOO.
    KEYWEA

    Answer by KEYWEA at 5:47 PM on Jan. 3, 2009

  • I'm with the others... how did it come about? Did he tell you that she'd mentioned being a member here? If she's flirting with him, it's up to him to stop talking to her if he's uncomfortable with it. If she knows your screen name tho, I'd change it just so she couldn't relaty information to your hubby from here (venting/personal feelings etc)
    lisa_ann_p

    Answer by lisa_ann_p at 6:03 PM on Jan. 3, 2009