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Do people cheat only if they are not happy in their relationship?

My brother and my hubby brought up this in a conversation because someone they know. I said even if they are happy people cheat.

 
JCRestoredme

Asked by JCRestoredme at 8:33 PM on Jan. 3, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (12)
  • Some people cheat when there is basically nothing wrong in their current relationship. Lack of character, addictions, insecurities, self esteem problems, Ego.....all reasons they might. I'm I could think of lots of others. Some people simply cannot grasp the deep meaning of committment..
    GrnEyedGrandma

    Answer by GrnEyedGrandma at 8:37 PM on Jan. 3, 2009

  • I agree happy people do cheat. It may not be as often as unhappy people do, but it does happen.
    Jazak

    Answer by Jazak at 8:35 PM on Jan. 3, 2009

  • I agree with you. (from experience) ((no I wasn't the one cheating))
    SandraB383

    Answer by SandraB383 at 8:35 PM on Jan. 3, 2009

  • there has to be something wrong in a relationship to cheat. if you were happy with your partner you wouldn't have a reason to stray.
    luvsgriffin

    Answer by luvsgriffin at 8:36 PM on Jan. 3, 2009

  • yea, even if they are happy they'll cheat it could just be purely for selfish reasons.

    Apr1l

    Answer by Apr1l at 8:44 PM on Jan. 3, 2009

  • GrneyedGrandma...you hit the nail in the head...YOU are my best answer!!!!!
    JCRestoredme

    Answer by JCRestoredme at 8:46 PM on Jan. 3, 2009

  • Some people just shouldn't be in relationships. I am 100% happy with the man I married and I will NEVER cheat on him EVER and he will NEVER do it to me EVER!!! I think if you cheat and you say your happy, you're not really happy are you? (I don't mean you personally, just the way I wrote the answer).
    happyathomemum

    Answer by happyathomemum at 8:52 PM on Jan. 3, 2009

  • And some people never cheat no matter how unhappy they are.
    ColleenF30

    Answer by ColleenF30 at 8:56 PM on Jan. 3, 2009

  • i think happy people cheat to cuz they know they can
    butterscotch297

    Answer by butterscotch297 at 9:00 PM on Jan. 3, 2009

  • I don't think its good to assume your man will never cheat. It just makes it hurt more if he does.
    SandraB383

    Answer by SandraB383 at 9:01 PM on Jan. 3, 2009

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