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You can gently stroke him up his saft using two fingers on each side of it, kind of like putting your fingers in a V-shape and sliding them up and down his shaft, very lightly. Do this until he feels like he might ejaculate and then stop, from there you can switch to another "tease" and go back. The longer you withhold orgasm from him the stronger it will be when it happens ( to a point, "blue balls" are no fun for them but that takes a LONG TIME with no ejaculation to get to that point)
YOu can also blindfold him and tease him with a feather, your own body, etc. Start going down on him for a while, stop and while he is blindfolded put a couple small peices of ice inside of your vagina ( quickly because it will mely fast) then start to have sex with him. I promiss he will LOVE it and won't know what hit him.
There are also a ways to have sex that will mentally bring you two closer, but that is another answer, I only have so much room.
at 12:41 AM on Jul. 16, 2008
DO KEGAL EXERSCISES ALL OF THE TIME.
Women who practice Tantra can manipulate their vaginal walls to almost to a "milking" motion on the penis. You will also have stronger orgasms and he will enjoy it a lot better.
If anyone has ever known a man who is a "world traveler" they will know that American women have very weak vaginal muscles compared to so many other women across the globe. This makes sex less enjoyable to both you and him. But if you looked up ways to strengthen your vaginal muscles (It can go way beyond kegals) you will enjoy sex so much more and so will he.
You can also use a glass or stone "penis" to actually squeeze with yout vaginal muscles to help strengthin them more. You can not use a actual penis for this, or a dildo because they are too soft and will not strengthen the muscles like you want them to.
Also sit ups and belly dancing are great things you can do to help your vaginal muscles.
at 12:50 AM on Jul. 16, 2008
WOW!!!! Are you Dr. Ruth??? :)
at 1:04 AM on Jul. 16, 2008
at 1:49 AM on Jul. 16, 2008