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sex positions for expeters

i need a good sex position

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:41 PM on Jul. 15, 2008 in Relationships

Answers (8)
  • i always liked being on bottom or lying on the side.

    Answer by ahannasmygirl at 11:53 PM on Jul. 15, 2008

  • Ex(-)peters? Sounds like something you should ask the guy that Lorena Bobbit went after.

    Answer by halfpint_ny at 11:56 PM on Jul. 15, 2008

  • lay on your back at the end of the bed with just your butt hanging off and have your husband stand and grab your legs this position also works great for oral

    Answer by JustinScottsMom at 11:58 PM on Jul. 15, 2008

  • Have him sit in a chair and you sit on his lap, but facing the other way, you can either squat with your feet on either side of him or you can kneel with your legs almost wrapping around him. (reverse cowgirl) You will get the deepest penitration with this position.
    You can also have him lay on his side facing you, put one of your legs in between his and the other leg over him. You will have a little space between you but once he is inserted you will figure out pretty quick the best position to get in while having sex like this. This one feels GREAT for the guy.
    You can also do doggy style, but you almost lay down while you do it, that is a great one and although penetration is not very deep it hits your G-spot just right and feel good to him as well.
    There are also ways to "tease" before and during sex to make it more enjoyable for both of you.
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    Answer by Anonymous at 12:41 AM on Jul. 16, 2008

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    You can gently stroke him up his saft using two fingers on each side of it, kind of like putting your fingers in a V-shape and sliding them up and down his shaft, very lightly. Do this until he feels like he might ejaculate and then stop, from there you can switch to another "tease" and go back. The longer you withhold orgasm from him the stronger it will be when it happens ( to a point, "blue balls" are no fun for them but that takes a LONG TIME with no ejaculation to get to that point)
    YOu can also blindfold him and tease him with a feather, your own body, etc. Start going down on him for a while, stop and while he is blindfolded put a couple small peices of ice inside of your vagina ( quickly because it will mely fast) then start to have sex with him. I promiss he will LOVE it and won't know what hit him.
    There are also a ways to have sex that will mentally bring you two closer, but that is another answer, I only have so much room.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:41 AM on Jul. 16, 2008

    Women who practice Tantra can manipulate their vaginal walls to almost to a "milking" motion on the penis. You will also have stronger orgasms and he will enjoy it a lot better.
    If anyone has ever known a man who is a "world traveler" they will know that American women have very weak vaginal muscles compared to so many other women across the globe. This makes sex less enjoyable to both you and him. But if you looked up ways to strengthen your vaginal muscles (It can go way beyond kegals) you will enjoy sex so much more and so will he.
    You can also use a glass or stone "penis" to actually squeeze with yout vaginal muscles to help strengthin them more. You can not use a actual penis for this, or a dildo because they are too soft and will not strengthen the muscles like you want them to.
    Also sit ups and belly dancing are great things you can do to help your vaginal muscles.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:50 AM on Jul. 16, 2008

  • WOW!!!! Are you Dr. Ruth??? :)

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:04 AM on Jul. 16, 2008

  • LOL, no.

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:49 AM on Jul. 16, 2008

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