my statement ti him first was i love you and need you and this is what he replied i dont want to be needed,, thats after 23 years of marriage :((Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 1:56 AM on Jan. 4, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by ReadyToRage at 2:01 AM on Jan. 4, 2009
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Answer by gdiamante at 2:37 AM on Jan. 4, 2009
"I would take that as he wants an independent woman." I would have to agree with that Mom above who posted that answer. I am 28, and I have never told a guy that I needed them. Need them for what? Now, you are married, and of course you too "need" one another...but what I've learned so far is that men love independent women. Well, at least some men do. Even in a marriage, I'd suppose, that you shouldn't let your right hand know what your left hand is doing...Your hubby consciously knows you "need" him...there are certain things that seem impossible to get done w/o him around...But telling him that kind of breaks his level of manhood as oppose to marring the independent woman he did years ago...(making any sense here:/)?
Answer by KXDESIGNS at 3:58 AM on Jan. 4, 2009
cont.--So, either he was having a rough day and that was the last thing that he wanted to hear...he was being a meany, and or, he just wants his independent woman back on the scene who needs him, but shows no sign of the necessary "need"...just the "want"!
God's blessings to you on this one Luv..
Answer by KXDESIGNS at 3:59 AM on Jan. 4, 2009
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