So my husband left his FB account open and I found messages between him and a girl that he has really known a long time ( yeah I know shouldn't have been looking but he left it on on so I looked) They were together at one point in the past way before we met. She is also his "best friend" So he says.
So anyways, he writes her telling how he misses her, how sexy she is, and how he had dream she was pregnant. He also said in his dream he was trying to have sex with her. ..She lives far away but it's possible that whenever he goes to his home town, she could be there since they are from the same place. This is not the first time I have found intimate messages between them.
There was also another message to a girl in his home town about them meeting up the next time he is home. He promised to give her a massage the next time if he sees her. Her response to that was "Only if you hold me tight."
I just can't believe how much disrespect he has for our marraige and how much those women can disrespect a marriage... We have been married for almost 10 years. There was another message he had with another girl asking does she like it rough during sex. I comforted him about it and he said he was just flirting and boosting the girls ego and his own. He said he is sorry and he feels so bad about it. I think he only feels bad about it because he got caught. I don't think he feels bad because this is the second time we are going through this. Im just pretty much tired of this and I am wanting to leave. He obviously is not thinking about my feelings. Just lost at what to do. We have 2 kids and I don't have the money to leave.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:39 PM on Oct. 8, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by Orionsgirl at 8:42 PM on Oct. 8, 2011
Answer by tnm786 at 8:42 PM on Oct. 8, 2011
Answer by vivianne112 at 8:55 PM on Oct. 8, 2011
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Answer by incarnita at 9:49 PM on Oct. 8, 2011
This is the second time? Then it is not a fluke. He is not sorry. he is sorry he got caught. Put your foot down. Tell him your marriage is in jeopardy because of this problem he has with other women
Answer by louise2 at 9:54 PM on Oct. 8, 2011
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