HE DIED IN CAR ACCIDENT ON OCT 24 O8-SEEMS LIKE YESTDAY--HELP MEAnswer Question
Answer by RugersMommy06 at 12:11 PM on Jan. 4, 2009
Answer by Bearsjen at 12:12 PM on Jan. 4, 2009
Answer by GrnEyedGrandma at 12:48 PM on Jan. 4, 2009
Answer by mommie2twogirls at 12:50 PM on Jan. 4, 2009
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Answer by mommie2twogirls at 1:00 PM on Jan. 4, 2009
The healing process is different for everyone. You are the one who decides that your done mourning a loss. It's okay to miss your child. Crying is a healing process & realizing that you need others to help you get through this hard time are ways to lift yourself. As a daughter, I know my mother would miss me dearly but, I would not want to know that she spends all her time hurting because I'm no longer here. Your son celebrated his time here on earth & now he's celebrating in a different place. You shared wonderful times with your son & should share those memories with everyone, I'm sure they would love to here them & this would be good for you. I wish that I could give you comfort but, you will be with your son again. My father past away a few years back but, not long ago. I talk to him everyday, knowing that he is there, still loving me & knowing that I will get to be with him when my time on earth is done.
Answer by onespecialmom at 1:01 PM on Jan. 4, 2009
Answer by mommie2twogirls at 1:07 PM on Jan. 4, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 1:11 PM on Jan. 4, 2009
Sweetie, it was only yesterday. It will never ever go away but, and you may not want to hear this now, it will get better. Grief is like a tunnel you walk through, you move closer to getting through it but you are never really out of it. I work with grief and loss and if you want PM me. There are probably people in your area that I can locate that can give you the appropriate support you need. One group is called Compassionate Friends. IT is for parents who have lost their children to death. It is a group no mother wants to ever belong to and yet it is such a needed support group. Groups are not always for everyone. In the mean time, be good to yourself. Cry, scream, yell, break things if you have to. RAGE if it helps. My heart goes out to you. Really, do PM me at anytime.
Answer by frogdawg at 1:12 PM on Jan. 4, 2009