Well...that about sums it up...do I forgive her??? She supported me through many tough times but when the going got tough she went straight to some other friends that I don't care for and my husband and shared my deepest, darkest secrets and then didn't have the balls to tell me what she had down. So....what do I do? I miss her, but don't think that I can ever trust her again. Woud you even give her the opportunity?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:18 PM on Jan. 4, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by seasnakesc at 11:41 PM on Jan. 4, 2009
It really depends what kind of a friend she is & if she will be good for you to keep in your life. If she WAS a good friend, What was her reason for telling anyone your deepest secrets? Was she worried for you & felt like someone should know because she was having a hard time dealing with something that you told her that could harm you, so she wanted to get help for you OR Did she tell someone just to Gossip or for spite? Decide what is best for you & ask yourself questions on why you want to keep her in your life or why you shut her out before. we all have missed friends from the past because of great memories but friendships sometimes come & go. Mine ended up being more harmful for me instead of good. Just make sure she is worth starting a friendship over again & if not, then I would suggest meeting new ones that will prosper with you in greater ways!
Answer by onespecialmom at 11:45 PM on Jan. 4, 2009
If you miss her, I'd try to start fresh with her. But to me, trust is the biggest part of the friendship. And if times got tough again or something came up, could you lean on her and trust her not to blab your business again? I couldn't. I would keep her at an arms length, It does seem like she may mean more to you than you do to her. Especially if she didn't even have the guts to tell you what she'd done. Proceed with caution.
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