I'm 36 and have had troubled pregnacys with my others. 17yrs, 13yrs and lost twins inbetween. I'm getting remarried and thought there would be no chance for a baby. I was wrong:) I'm ending my 1st trimester and we are doing great. I have several friends that have had children into there 40's and everything went great. I think that you will be better prepaired for the baby than some younger mom's. Don't worry about what others think, it's your family.