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how do i deal with my daughters divorce?

shes been married for 5 years and has 2 beautiful little girls, her and her husband have had issues on and off, and now he says he wants a divorce. ive tried to tell them both to get counseling, because nothing is worth loosing your family over. i feel devestated for all of them especially the kids. we like our son in law, and cant believe hes doing this. he is a part of our family, but my daughter is our family. i told her i support her no matter what, and im always here for her and her babies. i dont know what shes going to do. i know im probley rambling, i feel heartbroken, i wanted her to have it all. her and her husband are both good parents, and good all around people. he has had substance abuse problems in the past, but since has been in recovery, or so we all thought. im not sure if he is using again, but he has changed so much in the last month, its unbelieveable. i know i cant fix this, i hate to see them all go through this. please any advice would be great.

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Asked by larelpadilla at 10:17 AM on Jul. 16, 2008 in Relationships

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  • He might just be going through something right now. All you can do is support them both through this, Your daughter needs you right now and without him who knows maybe she will be better off! Things might not be as good at home as you seem to think they were. Everything wil be ok :)

    Answer by MommyMel03 at 10:21 AM on Jul. 16, 2008

  • my advice. support your daughter.

    Answer by princezzmommie at 11:26 PM on Jul. 16, 2008

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