Have you ever asked yourself this question? After seeing the Tyler Perry movie a few months ago I realized that I never thought about the actual reason WHY I got married. Yes, I love my husband and wanted to be with him but sometimes I think that I said "yes" because that's what I thought was supposed to be the next thing to happen in my life. I graduated from grad school, I was moving to a new city and he proposed so it was like the natural order of things. I don't regret it at all....just wondering if anyone has ever really thought about that question.
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Answer by tat2edmommyof2 at 4:27 PM on Jan. 5, 2009
Why? Because we wanted to. I guess because it was the next thing to do. We were graduating from college and starting our careers. It made sense. I'm not saying that was right. It was just what happened. In retrospect, should we have waited? Maybe. I can say it could have gone either way really. But thankfully it went in the positive direction. We both can stand each other at the end of the day and the things that annoy us about each other aren't so bad and can be dismissed. As my husband put it the other day, he can live with the ways I annoy him and vice versa. The end of story. Sure there is love, respect, and all that good stuff. But it comes down to can we live with each other day in and day out. Some people you may like, even love, but no way in Hell you could live with them long term. Or the love will go.
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Answer by GreekMama28 at 5:00 PM on Jan. 5, 2009
Because we're old fashioned and knew we wanted a family...marriage, then babies. Should have been then house, then babies...however buying a house isn't in the cards for us till he's out of the Navy! I really wanted to too. The first day I met him I told my friend I would marry him one day! Look at me, I did marry him!! Almost 4 and a half years ago!
Answer by Navymama at 6:48 PM on Jan. 5, 2009