My boyfriend and I have been together 1 1/2 years and there is sex once a month. He would rather drink alcohol and be drunk. He is sober one week out of the month. No romance of any kind. I am depressed becuz we dont talk only argue. He says he loves me....but I just dont so. What can you tell me that can help with no bashing!
Asked by Anonymous at 7:53 PM on Jan. 5, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Bearsjen at 7:58 PM on Jan. 5, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 7:55 PM on Jan. 5, 2009
Answer by Liyoness at 7:57 PM on Jan. 5, 2009
Answer by admckenzie at 7:58 PM on Jan. 5, 2009
Decide for yourself if that is how you deserve to be treated. I hope it isn't. It is better to walk away now that to be stuck in a bad marriage later. Refuse to settle for less than you're worth. Alcoholism and love are incompatible for existing at the same time.
Answer by GrnEyedGrandma at 7:58 PM on Jan. 5, 2009
Answer by ReadyToRage at 8:02 PM on Jan. 5, 2009
Answer by scaredmommy08 at 8:08 PM on Jan. 5, 2009
You have been with him a 1 1/2 year & he's doing this? Get out of the relationship because old habits are hard to change. What are you getting out of this relationship? You both fight, he drinks & gets drunk & there is only sex once a month. I would say goodbye to this bad relationship & find someone who deserves you. Make a decision that he will be the last mistake that you make in a man & then go out "knowing" what you want in your next successful relationship. You have to learn to be able to say " I deserve better" & keep the trama drama out of your life. We live one life so do yourself a favor & change the things that you are able to change!
Answer by onespecialmom at 8:44 PM on Jan. 5, 2009