I have made a decision to leave my SO_long story_ anyways I was hoping I could just get some words of encoragement.Help me remember that i can do this,that I can be happy and a good mom and not have to rely on an abusive person to "make it all better".Ty ladies, I just needed the boost.
You can do it. It sounds like me a million years ago. I had two children. I got a job at Halle's, but it did not meet all of the bills, so I went back to college. My mother helped, as well as a good friend. I went to school for 2-1/2 years. I made it. It was hard. I was on Welfare for those years, but have not been since. It was very hard because, Welfare took it to fact the money you used for books, so they downed everything. My mom was on Disability Social Security for having Myasthenia Gravis. She could budget like no one. If I could do it, anyone can do it. I was in an abusive relationship, too. I was not used to taking care of myself, either.
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You CAN do it!! It's really hard, but the hardest part is the beginning. The initial shock of doing it on your own. After that, it gets easier. Or it did for me, anyway! Just think how wonderful it will be to come home to a house where you can be comfortable and not worry about being abused. because you will be happier, and your kids will be happier, too. Good luck!
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