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Have you ever "cyber stalked" someone on Cafemom?

I ask this question because of the anonymous posting question responses. Ladies said the reason why they post anonymously is to prevent from being stalked or getting hate mail. I don't believe I've been cyber stalked and I haven't received any crazy messages, so I don't think this really happens... Have you ever "cyber stalked" another mom? Why? Feel free to post anonymously...


Asked by prettylob1 at 12:41 PM on Jan. 6, 2009 in Politics & Current Events

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  • No, but I've heard of it on Cafemom and warned a friend that I introduced to the site to post and answer posts wisely because there are loons everywhere and this site is no exception. I've been on the site going on a year now and never answered anon., nor have I been stalked.  I have gotten messages here and there from posters that I don't know about my response, but nothing rude, cruel, or disrespectful rather they were really nice, intelligently written and something I didn't mind getting.  :-)


    Answer by Knightquester at 3:37 PM on Jan. 6, 2009

  • I'm going to now!!! I'm headed to your page right now!!! LOL!!! Just kidding!

    Answer by musikdoll at 12:42 PM on Jan. 6, 2009

  • I have been cyber stalked. This crazy girl on myspace took my pictures and made a fake page of me on more than one occassion. She added my friends and looked up old people.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:43 PM on Jan. 6, 2009

  • i have never been cyber stalked. and No i do not cyber stalk.

    Answer by Aasiyah at 12:45 PM on Jan. 6, 2009

  • I haven't really had a problem. In the 1 1/2 yrs I have been a member I have received one email from a mother who disagreed with a comment I made. I would not have had a problem with it but she was totally out of control and rude. So I blocked her. I haven't had any problems since.


    Answer by Southerncharmes at 12:45 PM on Jan. 6, 2009

  • I've had someone PM me a couple of times over one answer of mine that she didn't like. She wouldn't stop after I had asked her twice. I ended up blocking her. However, the positive PM's have far out weighed the negative.

    Answer by happy2bme7 at 12:50 PM on Jan. 6, 2009

  • Ah no. That is mean and crazy. I hate people have to be afraid of that.

    Answer by KARRIEMARIE at 12:52 PM on Jan. 6, 2009

  • Nope..but I have been sent rude messages for being the voice of dissent in certain topics. I also dared to post a journal about how cashcrate won't make you an overnight millionaire and my experience with it..I received a lot of rude messages so I had to cancel my old account and start a new one.

    Answer by Izsarejman at 1:04 PM on Jan. 6, 2009

  • No and if they did they would be sorry. Just block them out and forget them. You can always put them on your block or spam list.

    Answer by Scorpio359 at 1:04 PM on Jan. 6, 2009

  • I've been cyberstalked. Nothing dangerous, really. I just had a mom that disagreed with me on a particular issue and she started "following me aorund" and everytime I replied to a post about that subject she started bad mouthing me and telling others that I was creepy and sick. But I contacted Cafemom after like the fourth time she did that and she was warned, I guess because she stopped.
    Now, this is really just someone being childish and stupid, nothing to worry about so I don't really post anonymously. Besides, I live in Mexico and I doubt someone will hate me that much to drop everything and come to a city with 50 million people just to get even with me. But I can understand that some women do take some things seriously and they like to protect their privacy.


    Answer by momto2boys973 at 1:14 PM on Jan. 6, 2009