Can anyone give me some advice on how to make a long distance relationship work? I want to be sure we are going to work before I just up and move! He is affraid that being long distance we won't work and wants me to move to see how it goes. What do you think?? Any advice about long distance will be helpful! thank you :)Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 3:19 PM on Jan. 6, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by companygoddess at 3:38 PM on Jan. 6, 2009
My answer is follow your heart. There are NO guarantees in relationships, sometimes they work, sometimes they don't. Remember the Shakespeare quote "it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all".
I met my husband while I was vacationing in England (I lived in Canada at the time). I fell head over heels for him and was kicking myself all the way back home for falling for a man that I would never see again. Well we ended up writing to each other constantly, spoke on the phone and he flew to Canada to visit with me. Ten months after meeting him, I was on a plane back to England permanently. We were married less than two years later.
We have now been very happily married for 20 years, have two beautiful daughters (born in England) and we are now living in Canada.
It is up to you whether you think he is worth the risk. Good luck!
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