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How long do you wait before getting intimate with someone you're really into, in a new relationship?

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Asked by goldfish09 at 1:36 PM on Nov. 5, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I had sex with a guy when he came for our first date. That was on 15th March 1983 and we're still together.

    Answer by winterglow at 1:43 PM on Nov. 5, 2011

  • It varies. I had sex with DH for the first time about a month after dating, maybe? But I've had sex way earlier than that with previous boyfriends.

    Answer by Vix920 at 1:49 PM on Nov. 5, 2011

  • Me too...first date...but in my defense, the date started at 5 pm and we held out clear until 3 am the next morning, lol...we talked all night and had been emailing for a month and texting non-stop all day & night before we met...I promised myself I would hold out but didn't...were still together :)

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:50 PM on Nov. 5, 2011

  • Hey, vote me down but has YOUR marriage lasted nearly 30 years? lol

    Answer by winterglow at 1:52 PM on Nov. 5, 2011

  • third date with df, weve now been together 7 years, and baby #3 is on the way.
    i dont wanna spend months dating then realize theres nothing in the bedroom :)

    Answer by 2boysmommy.js at 1:57 PM on Nov. 5, 2011

  • I, personally, never had sex as in intercourse with any guy until my current DH once we were married. Now, I did other things with them (mutual masturbation)... That was a month or so into the relationship.

    Answer by But_Mommie at 1:57 PM on Nov. 5, 2011

  • I waited until after we were married, and that was almost 47 years ago. It's still more special than I could ever describe to you.

    Answer by NannyB. at 2:04 PM on Nov. 5, 2011

  • I was a virgin when I married my husband. No regrets :)

    Answer by elizabiza at 2:20 PM on Nov. 5, 2011

  • I waited for a month or so with one guy, and about a week with another, and my husband waited for three months! We are still happily married and going strong! I love that guy!

    Answer by QueenMomma2023 at 2:27 PM on Nov. 5, 2011

  • I have always been of the mind that if you can't handle the chance of pregnancy(no BC is 100%) than you should not be having sex. I waited for sex till marriage. But we did do other things.  Been happily married for almost 14yrs now and we are expecting baby #4.


    Answer by Anonymous at 2:43 PM on Nov. 5, 2011

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