We've been together 10 years and have 4 children. The last 2 weren't planned, but the last one took a serious toll on me. I don't believe in abortion, but they kept telling me I was too young to get my tubes tied at first. Now it's just a matter of waiting a few more weeks until my appointment to get an IUD. He's horny and frustrated and making me feel like I'm a bad woman because it's my job to satisfy him sexually. I'm allergic to latex, so condoms are out. I'm turned off by the very thought of sex, because I'm EXTREMELY turned off by the thought of another unexpected baby. At the same time I don't want him to think of going elsewhere for what he needs...Any suggestions?
Asked by Anonymous at 5:10 AM on Jan. 7, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by lisa_ann_p at 8:15 AM on Jan. 7, 2009
Answer by Chrissy629 at 5:53 AM on Jan. 7, 2009
Answer by lovinmomto3 at 5:56 AM on Jan. 7, 2009
Answer by sammiesmom2000 at 6:40 AM on Jan. 7, 2009
I'd also find a new man who respects you. That is not acceptable at all. If you don't want to for ANY reason, then you don't have to. Enough said. Manipulation is not fair and you have good reasons. Sex isn't just about the man.
Answer by Teachermom01 at 6:49 AM on Jan. 7, 2009
Answer by lisa_ann_p at 7:19 AM on Jan. 7, 2009
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