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my neighbor makes noises at us when we are outside. even when i have company. his son flips my son off all the time. no we dont get along. we do nothing we just ignore them. well today the son left some messages on my voice mail. i dont know what to do now.

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Asked by Theresa65882 at 3:59 PM on Jan. 7, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Well, depending on the messages, keep them and seek a lawyer.

    Answer by kscmbz at 4:00 PM on Jan. 7, 2009

  • IDK you might call the police station and see if you can make a complaint. But if its not threatening then they probably can't do anything. How did this all start?

    Answer by CorCorsmomma at 4:02 PM on Jan. 7, 2009

  • COntact your local law enforcement agency and see what qualifies as harassment in your town. Obviously the police can't make your nighbors move but they may be able to serve them with an order to discontinue the behavior or serve them with a restraining order if the noises or messages are threatening.

    Answer by tat2edmommyof2 at 4:02 PM on Jan. 7, 2009

  • Save the message and I would suggest calling the cops to make a complaint. You need to start logging everything and that is one way to start.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:02 PM on Jan. 7, 2009

  • have your son beat him up. no i'm just joking. well i'd just get even. but in a legal way. doo doo on the door step. smelly fish in there bushes. write there # on a bathroom wall.
    :) it'll be ok.

    Answer by Kristina.C at 4:09 PM on Jan. 7, 2009

  • it all started a few years ago. these people just walk right in your house. i would have to lock up the house just to pee because they would be standing there when i got done.then there son would come to the windows at night and shine a flash light in them
    then there friends were parking in our drive away and leaking fluid all over it we tried to be nice and tell them to stop doing that but it ended in a argument. then my dog died unexpectedly. i just want them to go away. i dont want to listen to them next summer when i am out doors.

    Answer by Theresa65882 at 4:14 PM on Jan. 7, 2009

  • How did the son get your phone number if you don't get along?

    Answer by katskelington at 7:33 PM on Jan. 7, 2009

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