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if my husband is not paying attention to me; but looks at a lot of pron; what do i do about the marriage

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Asked by wanttobehappy at 12:42 PM on Jan. 8, 2009 in Relationships

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  • go to counseling or something.
    I think that means big problems, that could lead to cheating, if you two don't communicate better.

    Answer by Destiny13 at 12:43 PM on Jan. 8, 2009

  • Make a porno with your hubby....Porn can become an unhealthy addiction, you have to gage where he's at.

    Answer by Farrahann at 12:43 PM on Jan. 8, 2009

  • Get people to view your profile an add some information then come back an ask your question...

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:44 PM on Jan. 8, 2009

  • well i think you should try to dress more sexy for him do thing that are different try new thing maybe your not trying hard enough not that am saying your arent just try it hope it works

    Answer by LOVE88 at 12:54 PM on Jan. 8, 2009

  • Porn can be a serious addiction and can seriously hinder a faithful relationship. He has to realize the harm its causing. You can sure try to spruce yourself up, but it could also be all him. If it's an addiction you could be close to perfect and he'd still do the same thing.
    My DH starts to have issues with lust if we don't make love at least once a week. I think it's part of male nature but he's got to learn how to channel it to you.
    If you're a Christian you should pray, that would be the number one solution. And counseling is a great idea if he is willing.

    Answer by MamaChamp at 1:14 PM on Jan. 8, 2009

  • So what your saying is that he never pays attention to you at all? and that all he ever does is look at porn online? or you guys aren't having sex because all he does is look at porn online?

    Answer by hautemama83 at 1:49 PM on Jan. 8, 2009

  • â™” wow...can there be NEmore questions about porn lol... [[ no offense ]] .... but hey... if he dnt touch u and only looks at porn... laugh in his face cause he is sad.... u culd try n spice things up or dress sexier in bed or do things he likes {even tho u may not like it at first.....ex: anal....}...... either way sweetie dnt get down about it and do wat u can.... as long as u put foot work in to try and make it work and ur trying for a resolution... than thats all u can do... u cnt control his reaction or the outcome... so dnt put expectations on it... if he doesnt respond and it stays the same... than u need to look at wat ur willing to deal with in a marriage or relationship...â™”

    Answer by kwiseman19 at 1:55 PM on Jan. 8, 2009

  • he is the bored on he should do the spicing you just do you pay him no attention at all let him know you CHOSE to have hime around you don't need him at all ever he will try to keep you alittle harder and it is the truth you don't need him just want really really bad

    Answer by lalasha at 3:12 PM on Jan. 8, 2009

  • Can nobody spell PORN right?!?!!?

    Answer by munch12502 at 10:44 PM on Jan. 8, 2009

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