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how do you really know your babyfather is happy about having the baby??

How would you know....really and what do you think he should have told his mom if she said " you shouldnt have the baby" and would you think its okay to ask him how he reacted when he had his first child.

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Asked by tiffanybonn at 9:18 PM on Jan. 8, 2009 in Pregnancy

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  • He will spend all of his "extra" time with you and the baby...but honey he is a man so you never really truly know until you have a fight about the baby....then I have found that the truth finally seeps out...dont go picking a fight but maybe you could ease into!!!

    Answer by bdmartin_81 at 9:28 PM on Jan. 8, 2009

  • Have you talked to him about how he feels about everything?

    Answer by KatieCrandall at 9:37 PM on Jan. 8, 2009

  • Well, because you refer to him as Baby Father, I assume you are not married. Not that you have to be, but that can be a big reason for his mother's reluctance. From her point of view, he may not be a part of raising the child, and may have the burden of child support that would hinder his future. She may not see the committment that may be there. She must be concerned for her son, and I can kind of understand that.

    Answer by Scimecamommy at 10:24 PM on Jan. 8, 2009

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