right now im staying with my sis-inlaw.. she nice cool and out going...
BUTTTTT!! she smokes in her house with 4 kids around her.. i have one and she has 3.. my husband try tell her to do it some where elas cuz my son has sometimes problems breathing and b/c it just bad to do it around the kids period...
oh and when u asked her to do it somewhere elas she said no cuz it her house and and she could do what ever she wants..
how can i tell her in a nice way to smoke some where elas and just not around the kids...
p.s she really dont care if she smoking around they kids she somtimes even smoke right next to her 1 yr old son and hes always getting sick .. she also has a 2 yr old and a 6 yr old... plz help
i dont want my son around her and i really feel bad for her kids.
>> how do i tell her and what do i tell her so she wont take it the wrong why<<
plzzzzzz help me
Answer by CarolynBarnett at 12:50 PM on Jan. 9, 2009
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Answer by yamil519 at 12:42 PM on Jan. 9, 2009
Sweetie, if she doesn't stop smoking around her own children then she will not do that for your child. That is a fact. So you may want to find ways to better protect your son and his health while living there. You can have him play in another room while she smokes, you can buy some really good filters and an air purifier. But all that is really not much against living in a home where the person smokes all the time. Something is better than nothing. She is right, it is her home, so she can smoke. Nothing illegal about smoking in your own home and next to your own children. It should be, but should and Is are too different things. I wouldn't even bother to bring it up anymore - just do the best you can until you can leave that situation.
Answer by frogdawg at 12:45 PM on Jan. 9, 2009
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