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Had to word that as a question, lol! My son's birth mom hasn't seen him since he was about four months old, and he turned three this last summer. Usually when I've called her it's gone to voice mail, and sometimes she's called back and other times she hasn't. I called her today and she picked up. After I'd talked to her for a while I put our son on the phone. He does have speech issues so most people can't understand much of what he says, but he just chattered and laughed and talked her ear off.
Just the other day I made him a photo album with baby pics of him and a few pics of his birth mom so he can put a face with the name when we talk about her. I am hoping this will get her thinking about a visit sometime in the near future. She sounded more at ease talking to me this time than in the past. We don't want her to be a stranger.
I pray daily for both of my kids' birth moms and their extended families, and I am glad that God brought us all together. Just wanted to share!
Answer by dullscissors at 10:25 PM on Dec. 4, 2011
Yes you may share and yey, good for your son :)
Answer by onethentwins at 3:00 PM on Dec. 5, 2011
Answer by lilsweetpea708 at 9:55 PM on Dec. 5, 2011
Answer by AllAboutKeeley at 8:04 AM on Dec. 6, 2011
Oh that is great.I so hope this contact will motivate her to let herself enjoy having contact and knowing yall's son..
Such a caring heart !!!
Answer by drfink at 2:24 PM on Dec. 6, 2011
Answer by susie703 at 5:31 PM on Dec. 12, 2011