I'm a SAHM, have been for 3 years and currently looking for a job (it's so tough in this touristy little town we live in). My bf doesn't make much money and works his ass off all the time. I've been considering moving out with my DD to go live with my parents (they live really close to us) so he could save money, or spend his free time (the very very little that he has).. I see him for about an hour a day, and one free day a week.
I really love him but he's so easily a pushover and stays extra hours at work doing sidejobs that he's not even getting paid for.. just favors for customers or the boss.
He'd be devastated if I left, but we live in a horrible, tiny house.. and he keeps talking about moving out in the Spring but I don't see it happening, even if I get a job.
I don't know if I should just hold out and keep looking for a job, or stay here with no savings, in a tiny shithole house. It's pretty bad.
Asked by Anonymous at 11:59 PM on Jan. 9, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by Anonymous at 12:06 AM on Jan. 10, 2009
Nothing is wrong with you wanting to improve your life. Your bf needs your support and appreciationfor all he has been doing for you. Sounds like you have a man with integrity! If he beaten you I would say move. He is just working his ass off trying to give you and his child a good life. Moving in with your parents is just running away. If you are not happy being in this situation, why don't you get a job? If your parents live close by maybe they can take care of your child.
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