I have been working as a nanny for a mom of 3 boys who is a paramedic for the past 6 months. I work 24 hrs on 48 hrs off. I get to take my dtr and we stay the night. Well over Christmas time she picked up a guy for a one night stand and moved him in two days later. What she does with her life is her business and I am not here to judge. However I am totaly not cool with him being at the house when I am there plus he is there when my dtr and I are asleep. She said he is harmless. I do not know him for that matter neither does she.She said he will be here one way or the other-- I feel well weird about him and do not want to be around him. She said I could come and work just the hours he is not there which would leave me on the road home with my 2yr old at 3 am. We live 45 min from each other and not willing to bring the boys to me. If I take her offer my pay will drop by 200 which does me nogood. Should I find another job?Answer Question
Asked by Donna999 at 12:12 PM on Jan. 10, 2009 inLevel 1 (0 Credits)
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I was in a similar situation. We were renting a room to a young girl and all the sudden I woke up one morning and walking down the hall heard loud peeing! To my surprise a strange man was in the house! I met him briefly once before. I was very uncomfortable and told the roommate I was sorry we didn't discuss this before she moved in but I wasn't comfortable and if it meant having her and the boyfriend stay overnight or not having her at all- I'd take the latter- she ended up moving back to her Mom's home 2 weeks later!
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