just wondering, have any of you ladies had to deal with your man's crazy ex? i mean the girl will not just go away. she had a boyfriend just a few months after they broke up-and they broke up over 3 years ago! she found out i was pregnant and all hell broke loose, she even made up that she was pregnant and he made her have an abortion to scare me. we're married now and in some way or another she finds a way to contact us. help me out girls, i need advice!
Asked by Anonymous at 12:38 PM on Jan. 10, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by MomShawn70 at 5:21 PM on Jan. 10, 2009
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Answer by Anonymous at 12:52 PM on Jan. 10, 2009
OMG- a crazy ex. Did your hubby initiate the divorce? Do they have any children together. If not, your hubby has to step up to the plate and set some boundaries with her. Even if they do have a child(ren) together he can set tight boundaries and when she starts to talk about her personal like he can cut her off and say "I'm in the middle of something and need to go" Don't let her ramble on and have "friend" conversations. My hubby started doing this shortly after we were married (with my instigation) as his ex was calling a lot and interfering with our relationship. He makes it all about their daughter and "business" only. That way get the picture that "really doesn't care" and the focus is on the child. Hope this helps.
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