My SO and I are calling it quits. There are so many reasons but some major ones are he allows his 10 yr old son to disrespect and bully EVERYONE in the house including me and he has a horrible temper and I feel like I'm walking through a land mine just trying to keep the peace. We live together and I am a SAHM, he needs to save enough money to get his own place but I'm annoyed that I am expected to take care of his 2 kids and the house while he does not pay any rent, utilities, food ect. so he can "save up". By the way his kids call me mom. Is it wrong to say that I will no longer take care of the 10 yr old? how do I enforce it ? Do I try to demand he pay SOMETHING in the mean time or just cut my losses and hope he gets out quickly? Any advice would be welcome. ThanksAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:21 PM on Jan. 10, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 9:26 PM on Jan. 10, 2009
Answer by admckenzie at 9:59 PM on Jan. 10, 2009
I would pack his bags for him. I know that sounds cruel but you are headed for an abusive future. I sure he can find someplace else to stay and "SAVE UP". It sounds to me like you are a built in babysitter, housekeeper and cook!!! Get out while the gettin is good.!!
Answer by 40yrmom at 10:02 PM on Jan. 10, 2009