I think when you started seeing someone else, it was a clear message to your hubby that it's over between you two. If you really loved him, and want it to work out, how do you suppose that bringing in a new person to the relationship would help the marriage? I'm not bashing you, so please don't take it that way, but it sounds like you've moved on. If my hubby started seeing someone else, I wouldn't want him back not knowing if he slept with her, who she's slept with, whether she had disease, could be pregnant and I'd be forever reminded of him being with her etc.. If you want your hubby back, then you gotta break off this thing with the other guy and try to work it out. If you want the new guy... divorce the husband. But any person who dates someone that's still married doesn't have a whole lot of morals (sorry that's just how I feel because they're not single till they're single).
at 11:23 AM on Jan. 12, 2009