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When should my husband and I stop showering together?

We have been showering together for 13 years, but our oldest is turning 4 and I don't know if it's appropriate anymore.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 10:40 AM on Jan. 12, 2009 in General Parenting

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  • you shower together everynight?
    jodi205

    Answer by jodi205 at 10:42 AM on Jan. 12, 2009

  • Not everynight, usually just on weekends.
    MrsMichelle79

    Answer by MrsMichelle79 at 10:44 AM on Jan. 12, 2009

  • Never just shower together when the kids are in bed. :)
    KFree907

    Answer by KFree907 at 10:45 AM on Jan. 12, 2009

  • Good for you!! Keep it up. I'm sure you can come up with a "moral" explanation as to why mommy and daddy shower together. There's no reason to stop.
    jenettyshome

    Answer by jenettyshome at 10:46 AM on Jan. 12, 2009

  • Heck all 3 of us shower together sometimes. I would just do it when the kids are in bed though only because I wouldn't want to leave them unsupervised lol.
    Xynyth

    Answer by Xynyth at 10:48 AM on Jan. 12, 2009

  • well when i read it i was where your children were while you were in the shower but sounds like you two have it all under control so hey do it for as long as you can
    jodi205

    Answer by jodi205 at 10:48 AM on Jan. 12, 2009

  • I think it will depend upon your family view of nudity. I think I stopped showering with my sons when they were about four. My daughter is 9 and we don't have a problem being nude with each other. Except for her smart mouth about my faults. :)
    SusieD250

    Answer by SusieD250 at 10:53 AM on Jan. 12, 2009

  • I've been married 19 yrs and our children are 17 and 20 nand we have always showered together....still do! So good for you! My kids have never asked nor seemed bothered by it. I s'pose it's no doifferent than why you get to share a bed together and they have their own...I don't know.
    12crazykids

    Answer by 12crazykids at 10:55 AM on Jan. 12, 2009

  • I WOULD SAY NEVER!!!!!JUST AN EXTRA TIME FOR THE TWO OF YOU!
    older

    Answer by older at 10:58 AM on Jan. 12, 2009

  • um..... never?
    Laura1229

    Answer by Laura1229 at 11:05 AM on Jan. 12, 2009

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