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so one of my best friends is a guy. we have known eachother for over 10 years, never dated or did anything sexual, our friendship has always been platonic. however, everyone i know that knows us says they think he likes me. i don't see it, infact ive talked to him about people he likes and everything so why would he talk about girls he likes and his sexlife with me if he likes me?
anyway, we have a mutual friend who is definitely more his friend than mine. this friend and i have had sex and it usually happens when we hang out and drink. both him and i are fine with it just being a friends only type of thing, no strings attached.
well when i was asking my long-time friend what they were doing tomorrow, i promised him i'd "be good" this time with the other friend because i didn't want to put my long-time friend in an awkward position or do anything stupid this time. i just want to go out and have fun with my friends, that's it. well he said it would be one thing if he (the mutual friend) actually cares about me but since it's just a screwing type thing he doesn't like it.
i didnt ask him what he meant by that, but it sounds like he doesn't like me being "used"- though i don't feel used because the guy and i have a mutual agreement about the no strings attached thing. so what do you think he meant by that? and if he meant what i think he meant, does that mean he really does have feelings for me, and just has never admitted it in over 10+ years, or he is looking out for me as a friend?
Asked by Anonymous at 12:31 PM on Dec. 30, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by samurai_chica at 12:49 PM on Dec. 30, 2011
Answer by fiatpax at 12:50 PM on Dec. 30, 2011
Answer by Jademom07 at 12:38 PM on Dec. 30, 2011
Do you want him interested? Sound like he might be.
Answer by Anonymous at 12:53 PM on Dec. 30, 2011
Answer by gemgem at 1:17 PM on Dec. 30, 2011
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Answer by rkoloms at 7:25 PM on Dec. 30, 2011