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Potty training

My ds is 2 years old and he still is not potty trained. I try try try with him but it is not getting me anywhere. I bring him to the toilet and ask him do you have to go potty. pee pee or poo poo and he just looks at me with his head tilted like to say you know im not about to get on that thing. and says no but then later end up changing his training pants.

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BUTTERFLY463

Asked by BUTTERFLY463 at 12:43 PM on Jan. 6, 2012 in Toddlers (1-2)

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  • Two is a little young for a lot of boys. I always made mine sit on the potty for 3 books every hour until they went a couple of times and made the association. But if he's not showing signs of readiness, it might be best to just wait a few months - it's always easier to train them in the spring when you can let them run around sans clothes!
    missanc

    Answer by missanc at 12:51 PM on Jan. 6, 2012

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  • I tried for a year with my son...I was SO frustraited! Everyone kept saying "he should be potty trained" "Why is he in a diaper??" (when we were out) But he just WASN'T interested! Finally he turned 3 (dec 18th) and 2 days after he went poop in the potty and has been day trained ever since with very few accidents! GL and lots of patients! :)
    LoViNmYbAbIeSs

    Answer by LoViNmYbAbIeSs at 12:55 PM on Jan. 6, 2012

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  • wow. i was thinking the same thing, that he just isnt ready.
    BUTTERFLY463

    Comment by BUTTERFLY463 (original poster) at 1:07 PM on Jan. 6, 2012

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  • I'd say wait a few months and try again. My son was 2 1/2 when I tried and in about 2 weeks we were done.
    It sounds like your son isn't ready yet. When I worked in a daycare- most of the 3 yr olds weren't even potty trained
    charlotsomtimes

    Answer by charlotsomtimes at 1:07 PM on Jan. 6, 2012

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  • my dd was simialr. she has control issues. as long as i was pushing her to do it, she refused. once i backed off and let some time pass, she decided on her own she was ready. sometimes thats all that is needed
    Phippsandrea

    Answer by Phippsandrea at 1:15 PM on Jan. 6, 2012

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  • I waited until all of my kids turned 3. Then I took the diapers away completely and stayed home for 3 days. I took them every half hour the first day, every hour the second. By day 3 they were trained completely. (Except at night,, that takes longer)
    mompam

    Answer by mompam at 2:04 PM on Jan. 6, 2012

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  • He's not ready yet. I had my son in a daycare facility at 2 and in the class he was in they started potty training whether you wanted them to or not. Him being my first, I just went along with what they were doing. It took over 2 years to get him potty trained because of that. He got almost potty trained then his best friend (my dad) became a trucker again and was/is gone more than he's home. We waited. He got almost potty trained again (3.5) and his sister was born. He was right around 4, or a little older, when we FINALLY got him potty trained.

    If I could go back and do it again I would have waited and not started at 2. It was a HUGE power struggle and a major source of frustration for me. Not to mention the idiotic pressure from my mother. SHE wanted to brag to her sister that HER grandchild did something before her grand nephew.
    Rosehawk

    Answer by Rosehawk at 2:30 PM on Jan. 6, 2012

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  • I put my kids on the potty. DS started sitting so I could sit him on it every few hours and maybe read to him or something. After a while he went and we had a "party" then we "celebrated" every time he went, then he around 2 was like ok, its time to stand. lol Everyone said my DS wasn't ready too, he had no interest but kids fear/lack interest in unexciting things they don't know. You gotta teach them. I wouldn't say potty training is something the child needs to be ready for, the parent just needs to be ready to teach it in a way the child understands. All kids are different, they learn in different ways.
    GirlWithANikon

    Answer by GirlWithANikon at 5:37 PM on Jan. 6, 2012

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  • firstly, if he is not ready, definitely don't rush it. It could make him fear the potty and delay it even further. Most boys don't "get it" until 2.5-3 so there's no hurry. When you do start seriously training him try to avoid "asking"... asking always gets a "no" answer so instead say "let's go potty and then we can get a sticker".
    themelonie

    Answer by themelonie at 5:52 PM on Jan. 7, 2012

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