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Do you think you are a better mom than your mom?

I like to think i am.. Im sure iv made some mistakes, but i think ive done better than her... I see where i am now and where she was "back in the day" and i think ive done pretty darn good..

 
HottMamaRossx2

Asked by HottMamaRossx2 at 5:26 PM on Jan. 13, 2009 in General Parenting

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  • I loved this question.  Before I had children I use to think I am never going to be like my mom.  I am going to be such a better mom than my mom was to me.  I am sure my mom use to think she was going to be a better mom than her mom.  I definitally have learned to parent differently than my mom parented.  However it took me until I had teenagers to appreciate my mom so much more!!

    mommiedear

    Answer by mommiedear at 8:55 PM on Jan. 13, 2009

  • I know I am. I have been home for my kids which is something she was unable to do. I have a more open line of communication with my teens then my mom did with me. I am better educated as a parent on early and adolescent development then she ever was. I am more active in their lives and extra curricular activities and on and on.
    gemgem

    Answer by gemgem at 5:27 PM on Jan. 13, 2009

  • I absolutely am! LOL!
    TheDiva320

    Answer by TheDiva320 at 5:29 PM on Jan. 13, 2009

  • Definetly! I learned from my mom's mistakes. Everything my mom put me through I don't want my son going threw none of that. She always screamed at me and I hated that, so I always try not to scream at my son at all.
    kimaam

    Answer by kimaam at 5:31 PM on Jan. 13, 2009

  • YES! OMGosh! YES! I am such a better mother than my mom! I at least TALK to my kids and turn the tv OFF every now and then to read to them and play with them.. All I ever got from my mom was "Leave me alone I'm watching my show" or "I can't stand you kids!"
    I actually LOVE my kids!
    mominbolt

    Answer by mominbolt at 5:32 PM on Jan. 13, 2009

  • I think in some areas I am, and in some areas I'm not. She's a fantastic mom though, so if I'm half as good as her then I'm doing pretty damn good.
    Lacey1012

    Answer by Lacey1012 at 5:36 PM on Jan. 13, 2009

  • id like to think so..but..my daughters only 4...so..maybe ask me again in 10-12 years...lol...i do know my mom has more patience than me...but...i know that im gonna be able to have open communication with my daughter, not like me and my mom,.we never talked about "real" life stuff..and im gonna make sure me and my daughter can talk openly..without judging..and without me telling her NO NO NO all the time like my mom did with me
    alexis_06

    Answer by alexis_06 at 5:51 PM on Jan. 13, 2009

  • I wouldn't say better, but I do have a different approach to alot of things.
    dle4125

    Answer by dle4125 at 7:00 PM on Jan. 13, 2009

  • No, she is good, really good. She did seem a little busy for me, I was her last, but some things are out of her control.
    KARRIEMARIE

    Answer by KARRIEMARIE at 7:13 PM on Jan. 13, 2009

  • I KNOW I'm a better mom than she was.

    I don't beat my kids.
    I don't pick them up from the floor by their hair.
    I don't hit them with wooden spoons, belts, fly swatters, yard sticks, etc.
    I don't tell them they do nothing but lie all the time and I can't believe anything they say.
    I don't tell them they never do anything right and never finish anything they start.
    I don't tell them to stop stuttering and "shut up until you can talk right".

    I could go on....but, yeah, I'm better.
    TiccledBlue

    Answer by TiccledBlue at 7:27 PM on Jan. 13, 2009