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My 9 year old daughter is visibly gifted with big butt & boobs. With her towering height and curves she easily attracts older boys. How can i spare her from potential abuse since she is just a girl trapped in a woman's body?

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missVi

Asked by missVi at 11:49 PM on Jan. 13, 2009 in Tweens (9-12)

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  • best advice - make sure she has self esteem and self worth so that she does not feel the need to "let" boys/men abuse her because of her body!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:50 PM on Jan. 13, 2009

  • yes! self esteem is a must!
    aliciatron

    Answer by aliciatron at 11:50 PM on Jan. 13, 2009

  • Likeeee physically? i dont think you can stop that abuse like that is not welcomed ever and is brought on to its victims with being as careful as possible. but if you mean people being flirtacious and perverted to her as well, i would teach her to just dust off these comments and ignore them. dont say anything back to them because it opens up controversy with that person and it may not end good.
    MomNbabyGirl009

    Answer by MomNbabyGirl009 at 11:51 PM on Jan. 13, 2009

  • Be realistic with her. Have you had "the talk" with her yet? Let her know about all of the things she will be confronted with in her life. I mean, you don't have to get super graphic, but don't sugar coat it and above all be honest.
    Rebecca7708

    Answer by Rebecca7708 at 11:52 PM on Jan. 13, 2009

  • You just joined, right? Then why does your profile say she is 7?
    *suspicious*
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:54 PM on Jan. 13, 2009

  • No make up, no tight cloths.No shaving. All that should keep the boys away for a while. And no boy stuff tell she get older.(having BF's or dating)
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 11:58 PM on Jan. 13, 2009

  • Anonymous, why are you being so mean. Stop hiding.
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 12:00 AM on Jan. 14, 2009

  • Louise- wow lol thats all i can say to that
    ReadyToRage

    Answer by ReadyToRage at 12:01 AM on Jan. 14, 2009

  • I was not being mean louise2. It just sounded suspicious to me.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:01 AM on Jan. 14, 2009

  • it does sound a little suspicious, was one a typo? like the age here or her birth year there?
    aliciatron

    Answer by aliciatron at 12:02 AM on Jan. 14, 2009

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