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I am 11 weeks pregnant and just started working from 6pm to 6am. I am still extremly tired all the time. My boyfriend comes home and calls me names, lazy, slob, and compares me to his ex wife,and says he does everything. Which is not true, I still do alot of things but I cant do them like I did before. I have also been very sick, almost having to go into the hospital. What should I do? When I try to talk to him he gets angry.....I dont know.....

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:29 PM on Jan. 14, 2009 in Relationships

Answers (21)
  • Um this is just the beginning, i would dump his ass

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:32 PM on Jan. 14, 2009

  • Honey, leave his a$$. Verbal abuse is still abuse. You need to surround yourself with people who are loving and supportive. The fact that you are pregnant and you get up to work a night shift somewhere proves you are strong enough to do this on your own. You don't need his crap bringing you down. And when that baby gets here, you make sure Mr. Big Ego pays his share of child support. Your baby deserves to have two parents supporting it financially even if not emotionally.

    Answer by Danielle720 at 12:33 PM on Jan. 14, 2009

  • I agree with anon

    Answer by Apr1l at 12:38 PM on Jan. 14, 2009

  • I think he's a selfish bastard and that you need to take heed to how your life will now be with him.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:38 PM on Jan. 14, 2009

  • Are you serious? What a farking butthole. For the first few months of pregnancy you're so exhausted you can hardly make it through a full day without a nap. He sounds like an insensitive prick and as much as I usually don't advocate leaving...I'd say do it for now. If you have someone you can stay with for a few WEEKS, to let him see life without you. If he doesn't change his attitude you're better off without him.

    Answer by munch12502 at 12:38 PM on Jan. 14, 2009

  • Come on are smarter than that ass that you call your boyfriend. I will call him names for you ok......GET IT>>>>>>GET OUT NOW>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
    Damn girl he should be rubbing your damn feet....
    He is a your eyes up and look around...He is showing you the crap that he is made of.
    One more time GET IT....
    Sorry to seem harsh, why women settle for less than they deserve...drives me nuts...Wake Up!!

    Answer by Dannee at 12:39 PM on Jan. 14, 2009

  • That's why he has an ex wife. She wouldn't put up with the crap you are. He won't change. He will only get worse.

    Answer by louise2 at 12:44 PM on Jan. 14, 2009

  • i agree with the rest of the girls. don't ever make him your husband. just leave him. your getting a taste of his true nature. i'm not pregnant yet. i put off what i can do today for tomorrow and i never get treated like that. ever. thats cause my hubby loves me. don't get me wrong were not slobs but if i didn't get a good nights sleep from my insomnia he can over look a slightly messy house.

    Answer by melody77 at 12:45 PM on Jan. 14, 2009

  • Get rid of him

    Anytime a man calls you names and compare you to his ex then its time to move the hell on. He's a low life plain and simple.

    Answer by MrsTGray at 12:59 PM on Jan. 14, 2009

  • I think maybe this guy may not be a good man to have around your new baby.I agree with dumping him.Have this baby and put your time and effort into your child.The only man you will ever love unconditionally your whole life, is your son.

    Answer by evelynwest at 1:01 PM on Jan. 14, 2009

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