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Would YOU be friends with someone if their husband was a racist?

No matter your color, black, white, blue green or purple. If you had a friend whose husband was racist against your particular race, would you still be friends with her? Can you look past her husbands issues and be her friend anyway?
I couldn't. Only because she obviously approves of this type of person and I don't associate myself with those types of people. What if you are already friends with this person and you later find out their husband is indeed racist? What do you do or say?

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 7:13 PM on Jan. 14, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (27)
  • no way. if you can marry a man that has problem with certain ppl then you got a problem as well! the stupidest thing is to judge someone else because of their color!!! nobody is better than anyone.
    momavanessa

    Answer by momavanessa at 8:02 PM on Jan. 14, 2009

  • YES.
    ReadyToRage

    Answer by ReadyToRage at 7:14 PM on Jan. 14, 2009

  • i would only be around her if she wasnt around her hubby because god only knows that all he would talk about is racist stuff and try turning ya and everything.
    americansugar80

    Answer by americansugar80 at 7:15 PM on Jan. 14, 2009

  • yes i could .. my husband is and i dont care its how he feels ... doenst change that i love him and it doenst change how my friends look at me
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:15 PM on Jan. 14, 2009

  • It would depend. I might but if their husband threaten me I wouldn't. But I wouldn't go to her house.I'd meet somewhere.  But that's me.

    Ann7227

    Answer by Ann7227 at 7:16 PM on Jan. 14, 2009

  • Anonymous, Mine as well!!! He hates umm .... certian people
    ReadyToRage

    Answer by ReadyToRage at 7:16 PM on Jan. 14, 2009

  • I would be! I don't approve of a couple of my friends husbands because I think their jerks, but we all work through it!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:17 PM on Jan. 14, 2009

  • badReadytoRage thats awful. I'm assuming you have kids , too

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:19 PM on Jan. 14, 2009

  • no
    NiahandAvasmama

    Answer by NiahandAvasmama at 7:20 PM on Jan. 14, 2009

  • Sure why not as long as he isn't an ass to me I could careless, besides I think everyone is a lil bit racist in their own way if you really think about it

    hautemama83

    Answer by hautemama83 at 7:20 PM on Jan. 14, 2009