latley me and my bf have been fighting alot and i have no idea why. just about everything. last time we fought he was raising his voice and everything which is not normal for him. then he said "i love you so much i just want to be able to feel like im loved just as much" i was like. o wow. i love him. but i dont know what to do. we never talk anymore and i never want to have sex. i have no money or else id do something really nice for him. i try to talk to him but he doesnt talk either. ive troed the whole romance thing and im still not interested in sex. how do i make things better? how do i make it more romantic and like it used to be when we were happy and never had problems and never fought about anything.
Answer by 3gifts.from.god at 9:39 PM on Jan. 14, 2009
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Answer by melody77 at 12:07 AM on Jan. 15, 2009
Make a cake,it's simple,it's cheap,and its sweet in more ways then one.I made one for my b/f last night and it was shaped like a heart(heart pan)and I dropped red food dye in the mix before cooking it and swirled it around with a fork for red swirls,frosted it and put our initials on it with red hots(made with love).Once when we got in a argument I went to his work and filled his truck with red balloons(like aÂ couple$ for a bag and a lot of breath)Â and I bought a bag of his favorite candy(another couple of $)so when he got done dealing with the balloons there was a treat waiting for him.Lol My b/f used a lighter to burn I love you...into a beer can(lovely huh)..sweet text messages when away are always nice to, things like I miss you!.Or here we have snow so IÂ walked around in the snow and wroteÂ I heart you. Just little things like that can make someone smile and smiles can lead to more. Good luck hun!
Answer by dtetz at 10:08 AM on Jan. 15, 2009
Oh one more thing... try to decided whats worth bitching about because if you listen to yourself I bet some things are not worth it and try to just bite your tongue on those. It helps a lot. I find myself bitching about the stupidest things sometimes and just admitting to my b/f that I was being stupid and I'm sorry makes things ten times better. I just admit my wrongs, us girls can be kind of touchy about things guys just don't understand. And vise-vs-uh.
Answer by dtetz at 10:13 AM on Jan. 15, 2009