It brought tears to my eyes and stung for about 15-20 minutes afterwards, I bit back the tears, just a mix of physical pain and confusion...why did he hit me so hard! We were just playing around in the kitchen, clothes on..we've only been seeing each other a short time, he's brand new to me and I am just getting to know him..he was using my iPad and started looking through my pics, he claims he's not the jealous type but when he came across one of me and my x, he said "Oh that's nice, you're licking his ear...wonder what you'd do if you saw a pic like that of me and some girl" ..he was laughing as if he were teasing me and pretending to be jealous when he wasn't..started wrestling around gently and said "come here you're getting a spanking", I tried to run away..giggling..and he grabbed me and told me to lay over his knee, I said no three times..mind you we are laughing the whole time, and finally I layed over his knee just for fun and he whacked me hard! He saw the tears in my eyes and rather than expressing empathy and apologizing when he realized I was hurt he started teasing me about what a girl I am and asked to see if there was a handprint, like he thought I was making too much of it, maybe he was in a state of suspended disbelief or something because we were having fun and then all of a sudden we weren't. He promised to never ever do that again and did apologize a little bit later..do you think there's a chance he just didn't know his own strength? I'm trying to give him the benefit of the doubt because everything else I've seen has shown me he is a gentle kind hearted softie..a really loving good man, but as I write this out I'm thinking this just isn't good at all, is it? Any input you lovely ladies have would be much appreciated.
Asked by Anonymous at 4:13 PM on Jan. 21, 2012 in Relationships
Answer by fiatpax at 5:07 PM on Jan. 21, 2012
HUGE RED FLAG
Answer by butterflyblue19 at 4:15 PM on Jan. 21, 2012
Answer by JLS2388 at 4:47 PM on Jan. 21, 2012
Answer by JackieGirl007 at 4:46 PM on Jan. 21, 2012
He saw the tears in my eyes
He asked to see if there was a handprint
RED FLAG - these are not the actions of a "gentle kind hearted softie..a really loving good man"
Answer by fiatpax at 5:14 PM on Jan. 21, 2012
Answer by mari2120 at 4:47 PM on Jan. 21, 2012
Answer by fiatpax at 5:10 PM on Jan. 21, 2012
Answer by kimigogo at 7:13 PM on Jan. 21, 2012
Answer by rkoloms at 4:44 PM on Jan. 21, 2012
Answer by lillie70 at 5:46 PM on Jan. 21, 2012