Would you support mandatory parenting classes or mentoring?

I was at the store today and this woman was kneeling over her 5 month old cussing at him! Asking him where the hell was his sock and shoe. She was angry and yanking on him in a disturbing manner. I am not a perfect mother by any means, but when I see such ignorance I can't help but feel angry at times. I think people should have to pass some kind of test or extensive training before they even have the option to make a baby!

I know it seems harsh but many innocent children are treated horribly.

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mrs.cta1217

Asked by mrs.cta1217 at 12:25 AM on Jan. 27, 2012 in Parenting Debate

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  • Well, first of all, anyone can fake their way through a course. I don't think the government should EVER decide whether a person is "qualified" to procreate. They have taken away enough of our rights.......................why should we give them more rope to hang US with???
    BridgetC140

    Answer by BridgetC140 at 12:48 AM on Jan. 27, 2012

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  • I wish parenting and family life was a requirement for high school graduation. As Bridget says, anyone can fake their way through a course. But I think some teaching could help.

    I also think we need to stop thinking of procreation as a right and instead consider it a privilege. When something is a right, you don't value it. If it's a privilege it becomes more valuable... that could cut the abortion rate dramatically.
    gdiamante

    Answer by gdiamante at 2:10 AM on Jan. 27, 2012

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  • I think something to help with the angry people have maybe but nothing to tell you when you can have kids.
    karing4elmas

    Answer by karing4elmas at 2:25 AM on Jan. 27, 2012

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  • No it should not be. Logistically it would not work. A high school and middle school class should be the best approach. With discussions on goals, parenting techniques, resources, abuse, comon illnesses in childhood, debates on discipline, and articles supporting what are good parenting approaches.

    frogdawg

    Answer by frogdawg at 8:39 AM on Jan. 27, 2012

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  • No it should not be. However I do think that for certain people it should be. The reason I don't think it should be mandatory for all is simple. Who would pay? I can't afford it and I doubt the government would pay for every one to get it. So logically speaking it would not work. Though if I could get a free one I would be all for it there is always more we can learn.
    hot-mama86

    Answer by hot-mama86 at 11:22 AM on Jan. 27, 2012

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  • I don't like the idea of Big Brother telling me what I can and can't do and how I should do it.
    Nos4

    Answer by Nos4 at 1:47 PM on Jan. 27, 2012

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  • Well I am willing to look past the "government conspiracy" BS for a moment... They already brainwash us with media, pharmaceuticals, and money as it is to name a few... Does it make sense that the state can step in AFTER a child has been abused or died to remove rights from a parent? Why wait until a tragedy happens before anything is done? I hate how REACTIVE our country is instead of proactive. I have gotten letters and phone calls from the health dept and schools scolding me for homeschooling my children and refusing to vaccinate them. To them that is questionable and possible abuse it seems like. Why not evaluate the stability mental, emotional and financial of people? You have to have a license to drive, practice medicine and law... Is bringing a human being into the world and raising them into a responsible, self sufficient adult not a big deal?
    mrs.cta1217

    Comment by mrs.cta1217 (original poster) at 8:17 PM on Jan. 27, 2012

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  • Nope. If it began by being mandartory for certain people, what would stop it from being mandatory for everyone at some point. As far as classes on parenting techniques, discipline (we all know that any one type of discipline does not work with every child), etc. who's techniques, discipline style, etc. would they go by? There are about a gazillion books out there on parenting, discipline, etc. so who's ideas would the accepted model? It could easily become a case of "do it this way, by the prescribed methods or lose your child", it could also lead very quickly to forced vaccination programs since that's what the medical community would like and someone making decisions regarding how many children a person could have based on their feelings about that person. I can tell you, I would have greatly resented having to take classes whether I wanted to or not. As far as abuse, it wouldn't stop it.
    meriana

    Answer by meriana at 3:45 PM on Feb. 4, 2012

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  • I was supposed to take a parenting class when I was in a half-day program for teen moms. I dropped it and took health instead. It was fll of closed-minded views and negative stereotypes.
    kit_manson

    Answer by kit_manson at 6:05 PM on Feb. 5, 2012

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