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How do you tell your husband your pregnet when going through a devorce??

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 4:36 PM on Jan. 15, 2009 in Pregnancy

Answers (50)
  • if you're pregnant you cant get a divorce, but that may depend on the state
    aliciatron

    Answer by aliciatron at 4:36 PM on Jan. 15, 2009

  • i would just tell him right to his face that must be so hard to go through hugs!
    butterscotch297

    Answer by butterscotch297 at 4:43 PM on Jan. 15, 2009

  • First off, if you are pregnant then there must have been something still there left in your relationship or you wouldn't have been having sex! i would try and work it out if possible but not just for the baby! I think it is wrong to get married just because you are pregnant so why stay married for the babies sake?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:03 PM on Jan. 15, 2009

  • Why on earth can't you get a divorce when you're pregnant?
    Moomie

    Answer by Moomie at 5:11 PM on Jan. 15, 2009

  • first question I have is it your soon to be ex husbands baby or someone elses, tell him, have the baby, divorce him, get child support. It's a brilliant scheme!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:20 PM on Jan. 15, 2009

  • in some states they dont let you get a divorce if you're pregnant! i dont make the rules!
    aliciatron

    Answer by aliciatron at 5:26 PM on Jan. 15, 2009

  • Anon 5:20, why is it so brilliant? He can drag out the court dates for DNA, custody, he can try to terminate his rights and he will only be made to pay a % of what he makes... wow that is so bloody brilliant...
    legalmommy101

    Answer by legalmommy101 at 5:28 PM on Jan. 15, 2009

  • Aliciatron- what state?
    legalmommy101

    Answer by legalmommy101 at 5:28 PM on Jan. 15, 2009

  • I just googled it and there are no laws in any state saying that you are not allowed to divorce while pregnant!!!
    scaredmommy08

    Answer by scaredmommy08 at 5:33 PM on Jan. 15, 2009

  • You can divorce while pregnant if your court system is fast enough. However the unborn child is included in the divorce.

    As for telling him just do it. If you have no real property and no other kids I would just not tell him and do a quick divorce.
    nycte

    Answer by nycte at 5:35 PM on Jan. 15, 2009

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