The way I understand it is Cafemom would only delete a comment if it was innapropriate and reported by another Cafemom member. Since this was a friend I would have to say it wasn't deleted by them.
You're friend can delete her comment if she wishes. But if she's a friend then I doubt she would have done that.
You can delete comments on your pics if you want also. But since you are wondering where they went it's obvious you didn't delete them.
LOL So.....what does that leave? Well, I would contact your friend and ask if she deleted her comments,...if not....then I would have to say it was just a glich of some sort. Maybe contact Cafemom and just let them know you had this problem to make them aware.
at 9:00 PM on Jan. 15, 2009