Ever since my great gma died(sept 5) i have been "day dreaming" about my family dying. She had everything planned(except givin the minister 50 bucks to do her funeral) and I have been really worried. I cant go 1 day without thinking this stuff. I mean I ask my DH all the time "how am I supposed to do all ur arrangements etc.". He thinks i am paranoid. I dont remember much from her funeral. I really broke down. She lived with me for over 2 years and helped raised me. I dont know if I need to go to a dr over this or what. I cant sleep anymore or anything. I worry about how im gonna be able to do things if they pass, or how im gonna get over the fact of another relative dying. I have most of my fam left(my great gma and gma from my dads side died when I was 6 from cancer) and I dont know what to do. Any one ever go through this or am I paranoidAnswer Question
Answer by aliciatron at 9:14 PM on Jan. 15, 2009
Answer by MyMayBaby_Chloe at 9:22 PM on Jan. 15, 2009
Answer by Bmat at 9:24 PM on Jan. 15, 2009
Grieving is a normal process. But when your grieving continues for an "extended" amount of time and it is INTERFERING with your life then it is abnormal. I would recommend you see your family doctor or therapist if it continues to be an issue every single day for you.
I am so sorry for the loss of your grandmother. I wish you the very best.
Answer by Southerncharmes at 9:24 PM on Jan. 15, 2009
Answer by sophiebethmom at 9:35 PM on Jan. 15, 2009
Answer by kabbot01 at 10:03 PM on Jan. 15, 2009