My bf checking girls out on facebook wrong or okay?

okay i was looking at the history in my computer & i noticed my boyfriend went to about 4 or 5 girl's profile and was looking at all their pictures, i mean every single picture in every album, i got bothered but im confused, i dont know if im just being jealous or if its really not okay on doing that, by the way it was at 4am. and he only looked at girl's not boys, and they are my friends on facebook meaning he signed in on my facebook because he doesnt have them as friends..

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Asked by Anonymous at 9:30 PM on Jan. 30, 2012 in Relationships

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either hes just checking up on you for some odd reason or he thinks they are interesting enough to look at every single picture..i would confront him about it and see what he says and also let him know it makes you uncomfortable..but if it were me i would think he might be trying to sneak around so i would do some serious talking and make sure hes not trying to cheat on you.gl

Answer by mamide02ninas at 9:34 PM on Jan. 30, 2012
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Answer by mommys2cupcakes at 9:36 PM on Jan. 30, 2012
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Sounds like he has taken his role as boyfriend to assume that it means he is a boy and he is your friend, as well as the friend of several other people who also just happen to be female. If he isn't already "friendly" with them, it sure looks like he wants to be. I would show him the door so fast it would make him dizzy and tell him when he was ready to look for a wife, I might or might not be interested in the gig!!! I would emphasize that as look as he was still shopping the whole market, he should not bother me!

Answer by NannyB. at 10:03 PM on Jan. 30, 2012
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Maybe he was just snooping? I like to FB stalk people too sometimes...

Answer by Anonymous at 10:31 PM on Jan. 30, 2012

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ask him. say you noticed that someone was on your facebook looking at these girls and that it makes you uncomfrotable and you want to know why. it isn't accusing him of anything and it probably is nothing. that is kinda a weird thing to do at 4 in the morn. i could confront.

Answer by dbodani at 11:25 PM on Jan. 30, 2012
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Maybe he was just being nosy. I on the other hand dont mind for my dh to check other women out. You know we are hot. But look dont touch.

Answer by BUTTERFLY463 at 11:38 PM on Jan. 30, 2012
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okay so i asked him about it and he lied to me sooooooooo much! he kept trying to find excuses to why he was looking at so many girls and i rechecked and i counted how many girls it was and it was 12 or 13, didnt want to keep counting, and i got so mad because he kept lying non stop that we almost broke up and then he admited that he was checking them out and he was masturbating to them and i feel HORRIBLE, those girls are my friends, my cousins girlfriend, and even his brother's ex girlfriends! we ended up braking up but idk if i took it too far, he did admit he has problems because this is the reason his last x gf broke up with him i guess.., and he told me he only masturbated a couple times , but i cant help how i feel, i mean it hurts me so much, and i dont know how i will feel once him and i hang out with my cousin and his gf again, i feel like he's going to be checking her out etc.

Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 9:03 PM on Jan. 31, 2012
GROSS!!!!!!!!!!

Answer by staciandababy at 4:14 PM on Feb. 1, 2012
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Odd

Answer by tasches at 7:37 PM on Feb. 2, 2012
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