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25 yr old drug addict brother

I don't know what to do for him. He's 25 and has been on heavy drugs since about 15. He was kicked out of school in the 7th grade unable to return even to alternative schools. My mom worked 2 jobs unable to keep watch or control him alone. The law would not step in to help (which is crazy considering if a kid misses too many days from school you get reported) but we lived in louisiana and I guess they just dont give a shit there. Now, he's 25, on crack and heroin, bi polar, adhd, and just recently diagnosed with mild schizophrenia. He's cried to me many times about how he wants to change but just doesn't know how because this is the only life he knows. Worst of all, he has a two yr old. How do you help people like this when rehab and every other resource is so freaking expensive? Especially in a city such as New Orleans where there are so many drug addicts. No one wants to help you there. I feel like I'm just waiting for him to die because what else could possibly happen? It just seems like our government should put more resources to helping people like this, especially at a young age before it gets this bad rather than trying to crack down on lesser things such as the crime on Marijuana where billions of dollars are spent. It just breaks my heart to know how many parents and families suffer because they just don't know who to turn to or how to afford help.

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BitsMom00

Asked by BitsMom00 at 8:11 PM on Jan. 31, 2012 in Adult Children (18+)

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  • Have you ever seen the show intervention? May not be a bad idea to check into it. Good luck from a recovering addict...it can happen.
    luvmygrlz

    Answer by luvmygrlz at 8:14 PM on Jan. 31, 2012

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  • I feel your pain. I wish there was an answer. It's painful to see someone we love kill themselves with drugs and alcohol.
    meooma

    Answer by meooma at 8:15 PM on Jan. 31, 2012

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  • I was going to say Intervention, too. I'm not sure how much they help financially but it's worth a shot!
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    Answer by anestheticsex at 8:18 PM on Jan. 31, 2012

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  • Well to be honest, you can't help him if he doesn't want to help himself. If he truly does want to get help then have him call 211 from a land line. They should be able to direct him to some resources. If there are none in your area, then he may want to consider relocating to my area. There is a non profit agency here called the Carter Hope Center. The individuals work a job while living at the center. They pay $125 a week and that covers their room, meals, and therapy. It is an excellent program because it is not like a rehab center where the person is kept away from society and then once they complete it are left to fend for themselves and face many temptations that they didn't have in rehab. Anyways, if he is interested in this program, let me know and I can send you the information.

    JeremysMom

    Answer by JeremysMom at 8:19 PM on Jan. 31, 2012

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  • There are many non-profit organizations that help teens with drug addiction or discipline problems, which may have been able to be utilized when he was younger. As far as now, there isn't anything you can do unless HE wants to change.


    http://local.soberrecovery.com/Free_Drug_Rehabilitation_Programs_New_Orleans_LA-r1298559-New_Orleans_LA.html


    http://www.bridgehouse.org/treatment/treatment-for-men/


    Also look into mental care for him, many times the state mental care facilities(outpatient, day treatment) can connect patients to affordable or free drug addiction care. 

    tntmom1027

    Answer by tntmom1027 at 9:04 PM on Feb. 8, 2012

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  • You are not alone in this battle.
    Sarah961

    Answer by Sarah961 at 4:50 AM on Feb. 24, 2012

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  • I think it's time to plan an intervention...........never turn your back - things can always turn around.
    Be there for support and never enable him. Good luck to you and your brother!
    isismoon3

    Answer by isismoon3 at 9:52 AM on Feb. 27, 2012

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  • u definitely not by urself...
    smiley745

    Answer by smiley745 at 2:45 PM on Mar. 31, 2012

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