My son is constantly in contact with his girlfriend and wants to be with her everyday (seeing her at school is not enough) and when I say he can't go out on any given night he says that I hate her (his girlfriend). I feel like I am being pit against her and don't know what to do. His girlfriend is actually a sweet girl but seems very needy. I kinda feel a little bit manipulated. Any thoughts?Answer Question
I will tell you to not say any thing bad about her, to him. Tell him that she(the GF) is invited to come over to your house, at reasonably hours of the day. The more your son thinks you hate her the more he will go crazy about her.
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You can give them time together but then he will have to give you time away from her.
You might want to tell him hey you don't want to get too used to her than you will get bored with eachother he won't see it now but you and I know it will. Let him see her but not too often that way he can't say you won't let him see her. Don't leave them alone for long just keep a close eye on them teenagers tend to do stuff...lol like you don't know. Just let him find out for himself.GL
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