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Getting hard? (TMI)

Does your hubby ever have trouble getting it hard? Like can still get off but it never gets hard. I woke my hubby up last night for some nookie, and he's usually a sex maniac. He never got hard enough to keep it in, but I was able to get him off with a BJ. He says it's from working out side in the cold all day... lol.

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:26 PM on Jan. 16, 2009 in Relationships

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  • I hate when that happens. Either hes' cold or too damn tired but oh well.

    I like it They might need to go pay a visit with their doctors erectile dysfunction just to get checked you never know...right.high five


    Answer by Butterfly1108 at 12:29 PM on Jan. 16, 2009

  • My hubby gets an erection when the wind blows so I have the opposite problem, lmao.

    Answer by micrespo at 12:31 PM on Jan. 16, 2009

  • stress can cause it maybe he was just tired and sense the BJ required no work from him he was able in enjoy it dont worry


    Answer by Anonymous at 12:34 PM on Jan. 16, 2009

  • Above at 12:29 pm. He happens maybe once in a blue moon, and ALWAYS when I wake him up in the middle of the night. He's probably just too tired.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:35 PM on Jan. 16, 2009

  • maybe once for a bit but it eventually got harder. i didn't really care. i was kinda hoping it wouldn't. probably just tired.

    Answer by melody77 at 12:35 PM on Jan. 16, 2009

  • lol, he usually gets one like that too. He's usually the initiator. lol I was feeling froggy.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:36 PM on Jan. 16, 2009

  • That happened once with an ex boyfriend. But he was also on anti-depressants and that can prevent a guy from getting completely hard too.

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:29 PM on Jan. 16, 2009

  • Nope, that has never been an issue for my dh, but sometimes he is unable to orgasm for different reasons. Anti-depressants are part of that, but they never kept him from getting erect.

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:55 PM on Jan. 16, 2009

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