My Hubby and I have been married for 9 yrs and we have 3 kids . He told me about 5 months ago he did not love me the way he use to and we started to therapy and , he wanted to stop going because of the money situation.. So we stopped going. He had a aregument the other day and he pulled the phone out the wall and took my keys and said , he should have left my fat A** 5 months ago , he pushed me and hit me I hit back .
I have tried to talk to him and he won't talk about it, he just says he was mad and he did not mean any of what he said. I tired to talk to his mom and she said that I was the one who needs therapy. What do I do or say? We are having a hard time money wise and , not sure where I would go , I don't work , we have a sick child.. Any Suggestions are appreciated.
Asked by Anonymous at 1:49 PM on Jan. 16, 2009 in Relationships
This saddens me...because it sounds like you are surrounded by difficult situations. Men often get overwhelmed much easier than woman and it sounds to me like the pressures of the money is getting to him plus sick child and his marriage difficulties and he obviously does not know how to handle. His reaction to you however is never appropriate!!! That is mental and physical abuse that you don't need. I can only imagine how scared you must be that this is happening, with not working, money and having 4 kids. Can't imagine. You need to find out if there is something else going on with him if he will admit to it. Another woman? Or if it's just the pressure of it all. Money problems can really make people go crazy. You BOTH need to decide if this is something you guys want to work out. It cant be one ended it will never work. Please let me know if you just need to chat.
Answer by Scoobersmom at 1:59 PM on Jan. 16, 2009
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